Logos Academy Debate Team 2010

Logos Academy Debate Team 2010

Sunday, November 15, 2009

INFLUENCE OF LOVE IN A TEENAGER



by Yvanna Yunez

The most famous, precious, beautiful, problematic and broken heart situation of a teenager 'slife is love or relationships, whenever we think we have someone special, we get used to it and when it is gone you feel INCOMPLETE. Love/relasionships distract you from your studies, life and friends but think about one thing IT MAKES YOU HAPPY! =)
Some girls dream about finding PRINCE CHARMING or The Most Handsome Guy in the school. Some just DON'T. Some want a good guy, which can do his chores, be a gentleman, be funny and be with his feet on the ground. The guys dream for A MEGAN FOX or a GISSELE BUNDCHEN, with the perfect body and the perfect smile but there exists the EXCEPTIONS that want the perfect, humble, sensible girl that is focused in the future and is confident with herself. But, let’s face it, the truth is that LOVE IS BLIND, you don’t CHOOSE who you would fall in love, when and neither where. Yet, in a love story there is always a PROBLEM:

a) your EX's girlfriend
b) non engage material type of guy
c) You are not ready
d) And the WORST of all he or she DOESN’T like YOU

But THERE IS A TIP THAT ALWAYS WOULD PERSUADE IN OUR LIFES, BE PERSERVERANT, BE CONFIDENT, NEVER GIVE UP, LOVE WHAT YOU ARE, WHAT YOU WOULD BE AND NEVER FORCE LOVE NOR FORCE YOURSELF TO TO LOVE HIM/HER.
HE OR SHE WILL LOVE YOU HOW YOU REALLY ARE! As TAYLOR SWIFT sings in her song YOU BELONG WITH ME
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5AHzIq_n-DQ
She wears short skirts I wear T-shirts she’s cheer and I'm in the bleachers dreaming about the day when you wake up and find that what you're looking for has been here the whole time
Can't you see that I'm the one who understands you
Been here all along
So why can't you see
You belong with me
The best part of a true relationship IS TO ALWAYS BE REAL NEVER PRETEND TO BE… OR NEVER BE FAKE (: BE ORIGINAL! THAT’S A REAL AND WORTHY PERSON! The best things come in little packages! No one is perfect and THE IMPERFECTIONS make us UNIQUE and ONE OF A KIND!

17 comments:

LoReNa BaRrAzUeTa said...

Every single person in this world wants the best for itself, although we can dream the perfect one, the perfect one not always will find you or you will find it, or after all when you find it is not what you expected, LOVE is a strong word and a hard feeling, to experience it you must be mentally mature enough, you can not say i am in love when you are teen, certainly there can be an atraction and an awesome feeling that we may think is more than a friendship: but when in it is over it is unconfortable and hurtfull. At this age AS AN ADVICE DO NOT LOOK FOR LOVE LOOK FOr FRIENDSHIPS THAT LAST FOREVER! cause LOve not always does. Therefore I disagree with something, you can not fight for someone if it is not meant to be without lowing your confident, LOve Will knock the doors of your heart when you are ready to welcome it, it could be in any moment: So do not waist your time looking for it, it will come to you. Enjoy life! BEcause i am sure you already have love! With your family and friends!

Anonymous said...

I DONT LOVE =:(but I agree with you when you said this: Love/relasionships distract you from your studies, life and friends but think about one thing IT MAKES YOU HAPPY! =)
I LOVE YOUR ARTICLE!

Anonymous said...

itr is a very nice article and i think that all people should think tihs way because its true we should never chnage how we are our personality just for some one to like you..

lisley Muñoz

Anonymous said...

I think that most important thing is to be ourselves! love and friendship do not have to affect studies...
camila arcos

Yvii Yunez said...

i agree camila.. but maria lorena.. i think you never have been in love.. and love from friends and family is different than boyfriend and girlfriend.. but you are right when you broke up who is always there your friends and family so it is true (:

Anonymous said...

i think that been inlove is a risk everybody should take, ur friends and mostly ur family will always be there takin care and loving at all time.. but its so different of the feeling when u r inlove its completly magical! (:
Paola Tinajero

Anonymous said...

All the people want to have a good live for themselves, when we are young we always are in love, or that is what we think, we used to get confused between love and atraction that is what we usually feels. i am agree with your article and opinion but no totally agree, in some cases love and atraction affect in other parts of our life and complicate us.
Andrea Aguilera

Anonymous said...

I think the same, love can be express in some many types but we crated the real one, because in the theme of friends their are some fake friends

Michelle Hernandez

Anonymous said...

We simply dont know what love is at our age... for all teenagers.. just have fun. When you fall in love you will tell if its true.

Matias Polar

Anonymous said...

We the teenagers think that we are in love but that is such a lie until we grow up and realize what is around us.

Michelle Hernandez

Anonymous said...

its true, we dont choose the person we fall in love, we always pick a type of person we like but in the end we fall in love with someone totally diferent, and i agree with you, to be fake its to have a fake relationship and fakes relationships end in bad terms...
atte. estefania zevallos

Anonymous said...

I agree. In this age we don't know love very well. I believe in what a friend of mine says: In this age we don't love really or we don't know very well about the theme. Ivanna Díaz.

Anonymous said...

we need to have experiences
so we can tell what is true love and what is just a lie... we need to be realistic.

karla pinargote

Anonymous said...

i think the love is very true at this age i have a girlfriend and i love her.

juan pablo gelibert

Anonymous said...

Everyone's obsessed with finding their soulmate and so on, maybe too obsessed that, on their way of seeking for that true love, they forget who they really are. I don't think we're ready yet to know what love is. We might think so, but later on, we'll realize we simply, just weren't ready.
-Danu Dominguez

Anonymous said...

In a relationship you have to distribute your time for everything you do, the world does not goes around that person. Love at teenage age can be difficult and you can have a lot of problems if you only think about the relationship.
Valeria Rugel

Anonymous said...

LOVE IS BEAUTIFUL i think that having a love relationship is a very serious deal because you have a responsibility because you have to dedicate time and also attention for him. also you have to learn how to maintain a good relationship
TATIANA PALMA