Tuesday, January 4, 2011
Romantic love is a poor basis for marriage by Maria Lorena Barrazueta
Until death due us apart... Or money
Love and romance have been the inspiration for thousand of songs through history most of the hits at the billboards are love songs and the best well known actors earned their prestigious position thanks to love movies, romantic scenes or passion scandals.
L-O-V-E , four letters,2 people, obe life along with other values like respect, solidarity, honesty, patience, loyalty and friendship complemented with communication trust and most important : passion and stability, are the ingredients needed to bake a sweet and never ending happy marriage.
If you want a tasteful cake you need the right ingredients but completing the recipes list is not a task since cupid quiet,traditions died and man decided that commitment is a useless- pre historic belief and woman lost respect for their pride.
Passion and luxury are the greatest love fakers that is why youth in this modern era have decided to take big steps without moral,sex,alcohol, driving and marriage lay on the same group.
Romantic love is a poor basis for marriage at early ages, if there is no stability , specially economically, fights and discussions suddenly transform in divorce, love in hate and the other person unbearable.
There is no one rushing people into marriage, if we are so modern, then modernly decide to wait and delete as much as possible such commitment.
Love is independent of marriage but marriage does depends on love and many other things.
Like a professional chef, get the right ingredients put effort to mix them correctly until you have a sweet love story bake it with the time and patience and finally pick the right person to share it, case marriage is the dessert of your life you need tot think , you need to love, you need time, and so many things to build a home.